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Dear Birth Parents

We felt that we needed to write something to you. We know you are out there, somewhere, and we hope that you are reading this too. You might be having feelings of fear or doubt about this whole thing, and we understand. To be honest, we are feeling the same way about this experience. Never before have we needed to be more vulnerable and more honest about ourselves, and that's scary for us.

We haven't met and we are both anxious about this process. During our normal daily routine, even though we don't say it, we often think about what you might be going through, how you may be feeling, and the burdens you have to shoulder. Know that we appreciate you, we think about you, and we are here to support you and love you as you go throughout this process.

We want you to know that you are not alone, that it is okay to be scared. We are in it together.

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